Everything nonprofit professionals need to know about coping with nonprofit burnout
The most important thing you can do for your nonprofit is to make sure you’re prioritizing yourself and managing stress so that you can keep going with your mission.
Sadly, burnout rates are high in the nonprofit industry. According to a survey conducted by NonprofitHR in January 2020:
- About 25% of nonprofit employees plan to leave their current employer.
- 45% are seeking new or different employment – that’s almost half the people employed in the nonprofit sector.
- 23% would not pursue a career in a nonprofit organization.
How do we address these numbers?
Nonprofits need to pay a little more attention to handling stress and burnout across the org. Let’s see how.
In this blog, we’ll cover:
- What is burnout and how to detect it
- The reasons behind burnout and how they can be addressed
- The human-giver syndrome
- How to cope with burnout successfully
What is burnout?
You are burned out when your body is stressed out too frequently that it can’t really clear away stress hormones. It’s the state where your body has been flooded with stress hormones repeatedly, and it’s starting to wear down your ability to deal with stress.
How do you detect burnout?
Burnout results in the following, especially for non-profit professionals who spend most of their time giving selflessly.
- Compassion fatigue, which means that you no longer feel able to care about the people you serve.
- Minimizing your own suffering. When you’re working with people who are in stressful situations it’s hard to recognize the stress and trauma that you are going through.
- Feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and powerlessness.
Simply put, you will be emotionally and physically exhausted to continue doing the job that you’re doing.
What causes burnout?
Fight or flight
To understand where burnout comes from, you need to understand your body’s stress response – fight or flight. When you’re under too much pressure, your body gets flooded with stress hormones that make your heart rate speed up, allowing your body to cope with the threat by fighting or escaping.
The sudden tension that you feel on hearing the surprise deadline on the grant or attending that call from the board chair is really your body’s response to these stressors.
Unfortunately, you can’t cope with these stressors by fighting your board chair or by running away every time you get stressed out. None of these are socially acceptable.
The way to deal with stress and allow our body to process stress hormones aren’t available to us, most of the time these days.
When you don’t fight or run, your body just continues to do physical damage to your body.
You kick into the second response which is freeze. Freezing is what your body does when it assesses the situation and says, “There is no way out, we are dead.”
How to tackle burnout?
If the stress level is manageable, deal with stress as early as you can, and protect yourself from getting to the point of burnout.
How do we eliminate stress?
There are a few other ways that have proven helpful in eliminating stress hormones and getting your body to relax:
One thing you should note is that while all of these ideas are free, we forget about them easily. The things that eliminate the stress most effectively are things that tell your body that you are safe from harm.
There are more things that you can add to this list – in the end, it is all about understanding that stress management is about making you feel safe.
Human Giver Syndrome (HGS)
The book Burnout: The secret to solving the stress cycle differentiates between human beings and human givers as, “…human beings have a moral obligation to be their whole humanity, while human givers have a moral obligation to GIVE their whole humanity, and give it cheerfully.”
Have you ever found yourself saying any of the following?
- “I feel like I’ll be called selfish for taking care of myself,” or
- “I feel obligated to just apologize for existing right or for taking time for myself.”
If you feel this way, you might have human giver syndrome. The nonprofit industry is filled with human givers. You wouldn’t be a nonprofit professional if you didn’t want to serve other people.
The nonprofit sector is built on the concept that some people should be of service to others. It’s not the only profession built on that philosophy – teachers and nurses do that too. But at the end of the day, nonprofit professionals go a step further to sacrifice themselves for the good of others.
This past year has made that even worse. As boundaries between work life and home life blur, nonprofit professionals feel more obligated to sacrifice more of themselves.
This is what we’d like to tell you, “You were already sacrificing so much of yourself. This past year has taken even more of you – that’s something that really needs to be acknowledged.”
Nonprofits and HGS
“When we deprive ourselves of our own basic needs as mammals under the misguided apprehension that that’s how we show our commitment to an issue, or to the people we love, we burn out. And then we drop. Only by making sure we have as much energy coming in, as we have going out, can we all stay committed, the people work and ideas we love.” – Amelia and Emily Lugosi, in Burnout: The secret to solving the stress cycle
Take a moment to reflect on this, think about what this means for you and your personal nonprofits journey. Make sure to prioritize yourself and your health, so that you can continue to serve other nonprofits.
Let’s look at what Human Giver Syndrome can mean for nonprofit professionals:
We are trying to save the world
As much as you try to take care of yourself, there are a lot of things about nonprofits that make it difficult to do that. You are mission-driven, you want to serve other people and you are trying to make the world a better place. It’s very hard to do that and set boundaries, to prioritize yourselves.
Low Salaries create personal stress
The nonprofit sector pays notoriously low salaries. The personal stress of financial trouble because you are not being paid enough is extremely detrimental to your mental health.
Sometimes, you don’t even set the goals because the goal is to save the world, right?
But isn’t that too big a goal? You should set goals that have a finish line.
Feeling selfish because we serve people who are suffering more
You feel that you’re being selfish while taking time out for yourself because you serve people who are suffering more than you. The issues feel so urgent you can’t take a day off, go on that vacation, or leave early to take care of yourself.
What are your options?
No matter how much you hustle, no matter how much you try and take care of yourself, the culture around you is keeping you in a state of stress and burnout. You have two options:
- Stay and try to change the culture, or
- Protect yourself by finding a new job.
Stay and change the culture
If you can get to a point where you want to stay and change your nonprofit’s culture, then, by all means, do that. Here are a few ways to make this possible:
As an industry of givers, people largely think about what the benefits are of continuing and the costs of stopping. Give credence to the benefits of stopping and the costs of continuing, because those are the ones that are going to let you really prioritize yourself. Noting down the answers to the following questions would help you decide if you should leave or continue.
- What is the benefit of continuing?
- What is the cost of continuing?
- What is the benefit of stopping?
- What is the cost of stopping?
If the answers to 2 and 3 outweigh the answers of 1 and 4, then we suggest you prioritize your mental health and leave. If you decide to leave, do it gracefully and respectfully.
Before you go
Nothing is more important than your mental health.
If you’re looking for immediate mental health support,
- Visit MentalHealth.gov and access mental health services.
- Text HOME to 741741 to connect with Crisis Text Line’s counsellors.
There are some more tools and resources that can be used to prevent burnout during these challenging times:
- Read Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski
- Try the Shine App
- Listen to the Feminist Survival Podcast
- Try the None to Run program by Mark Kennedy
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